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30 Sept - 1 Oct
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1 Oct - 2 Oct
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2 Oct - 4 Oct
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9 Oct - 11 Oct

Our top choices for Big Sur LGBT-friendly hotels

A rustic lodge with a sign reading "BIG SUR LODGE" and a signboard advertising beer flights and rotating craft.
A cozy lounge area with a fireplace, wooden furniture, and a television mounted on the wall.
A hotel room with a bed, wooden headboard, two bedside tables with lamps, a dresser, a window with blinds, and a framed picture above the bed.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, comfortable seating, and a view of the outdoors.

1. Big Sur Lodge

Big Sur Lodge
Big Sur
United States
Amanda
€179
includes taxes & fees
22 Oct - 23 Oct
Big Sur Lodge
A wooden pergola with steps leading to a covered area, surrounded by greenery and a pathway.
A multi-story wooden building with outdoor seating areas and a landscaped garden.
A forested campsite with a yellow tent, a fire pit, and a picnic table.
A resort with a swimming pool, outdoor seating, and a view of the surrounding forest.

2. Alila Ventana Big Sur

Alila Ventana Big Sur
Posts
United States
Christopher G
€2,347
includes taxes & fees
29 Oct - 30 Oct
Alila Ventana Big Sur
An outdoor deck with a fire pit, seating, and a view of the surrounding landscape.
A pool area with a fenced deck, lounge chairs, and a view of mountains.
A hotel room with a large bed, two bedside tables with lamps, a ceiling light, a large mirror, and a sliding glass door leading to a balcony.
A spacious living area with a high ceiling, wooden beams, a large window, and a dining area with a table and chairs.

3. Hidden Valley Inn

Hidden Valley Inn
Carmel Valley
Mexico
Jessica
€126
includes taxes & fees
5 Oct - 6 Oct
Hidden Valley Inn
A spacious living area with a large view of the ocean, furnished with sofas, chairs, and tables.
A corridor with large windows overlooking the ocean, wooden flooring, and green upholstered chairs.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, leather sofas, and a view of the ocean at sunset.
A spacious lobby with a high ceiling, large windows, and hanging planters.

4. Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel

Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
Monterey
United States
Katherine
€215
includes taxes & fees
1 Nov - 2 Nov
Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
A two-story house with a wrap-around porch, a chimney, and a well-maintained garden.
A hotel room with a fireplace, a television, a desk with a coffee maker, and a comfortable seating area with a patterned carpet.
A living room with a sofa, armchair, ottoman, coffee table, fireplace, television, and a large mirror.
A spacious dining area with multiple tables and chairs, a large chandelier, and a bar area with a mirror and wine bottles.

5. Victorian Inn

Victorian Inn
New Monterey
United States
Sandy
€162
includes taxes & fees
28 Oct - 29 Oct
Victorian Inn
A modern interior with a long corridor lined with wooden chairs, framed artwork, and hanging plants.
A multi-story hotel with a central courtyard, balconies, and outdoor seating areas.
An outdoor patio with blue furniture and orange umbrellas, surrounded by a multi-story building with balconies.
A spacious kitchen with a dining area, large windows, and a stone-tiled floor.

6. Holiday Inn Express Monterey-Cannery Row by IHG

Holiday Inn Express Monterey-Cannery Row by IHG
New Monterey
United States
Shiquan
€202
includes taxes & fees
1 Nov - 2 Nov
Holiday Inn Express Monterey-Cannery Row by IHG
A building entrance with a check-in desk, a door marked 'OFFICE,' and potted plants.
A dining area with a table and two chairs, a window with curtains, a framed picture on the wall, and a small table with a lamp and wine glasses.
A window with white shutters, offering a view of a brick roof and trees.
A residential area with houses, a fenced yard, and a sunset sky.

7. Carmel Wayfarer Inn

Carmel Wayfarer Inn
Northwest Carmel
United States
Walter
€143
includes taxes & fees
27 Oct - 28 Oct
Carmel Wayfarer Inn
A spacious lobby with a modern design, featuring a central seating area with sofas and chairs, surrounded by trees and hanging lights.
An outdoor seating area with a wooden bench, chairs, and a central fire feature.
A bar area with a long counter, multiple stools, and a variety of bottles and glasses on shelves.
A modern lounge area with a large fireplace, leather seating, and wooden accents.

8. Portola Hotel & Spa at Monterey Bay

Portola Hotel & Spa at Monterey Bay
Downtown Monterey
United States
Anca
€248
includes taxes & fees
1 Nov - 2 Nov
Portola Hotel & Spa at Monterey Bay
A room with a large window overlooking the sea, a wooden chair, a small round table, and a chandelier.
A bedroom with a large bed, a window seat with a view of the ocean, a fireplace, and a chair.
A spacious room with a large window overlooking the sea, a fireplace, and elegant furniture.
A two-story house with a covered porch, a fountain, and a view of the ocean.

9. Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property

Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property
Retreat
United States
Ron
€245
includes taxes & fees
4 Oct - 5 Oct
Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property
A multi-story hotel with balconies, a beachside location, and a view of the ocean.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, a round table with chairs, a large window with a view of the ocean, and a television mounted on the wall.
A hotel room with two beds, a fireplace, a TV, and a dining area with a tray of breakfast.
A room with a large bay window overlooking a scenic view, a round table with chairs, and a sofa with striped cushions.

10. Spindrift Inn

Spindrift Inn
New Monterey
United States
Cadee
€261
includes taxes & fees
28 Oct - 29 Oct
Spindrift Inn
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Frequently asked questions

How do I find an LGBTQ-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Consider this your open invitation to pack your bags and find gay-friendly hotels in Big Sur on our website. Visitors are sure to enjoy all Big Sur has to offer including its seaside.
What is the top LGBTQ-friendly place to stay in Big Sur?
Alila Ventana Big Sur is a top LGBTQ-friendly resort, and features 2 outdoor pools and free WiFi. Big Sur Lodge is another good option for your holiday.
How many LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options will I find in Big Sur?
There are currently 2 LGBTQ-friendly lodging options in Big Sur.
What should I do while I'm visiting Big Sur?
During your trip, get out and enjoy everything Big Sur has to offer. You and your travelling companions may want to visit Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, Pfeiffer Beach and Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park. While you're here, create some great memories of your trip with stops at McWay Falls, Los Padres National Forest and Big Sur River Inn.
What is a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
LGBTQ-friendly hotels, also known as gay-friendly hotels, welcome all travellers who identify as LGBTQIA+. We have worked with the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association (IGLTA) to compile a selection of gay-friendly hotels worldwide. In Big Sur, hotels affiliated with IGLTA prioritise a diverse environment in which guests are welcomed, respected and not obliged to declare or hide their sexual orientation.
What can I expect from a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Stay at a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur and get a warm welcome from a community you belong to. Many of our LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options offer concierge services that provide information about nearby LGBTQ restaurants and local events.

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